PRE MARRIAGE COUNSELLING

This helps couples prepare for a strong, healthy relationship, creating a better chance for a happy, stable and satisfying marriage. It's an opportunity to explore expectations, dynamics, goals and issues that a couple may not have thought of, and learn healthy communication and conflict resolution techniques.
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"MARRY SOMEONE IF YOU LIKE WHO THEY ARE. NOT WHAT YOU HOPE THEY'LL BECOME."

Bindiya Murgai

Premarital counselling helps couples prepare for marriage or a long-term commitment. It is the best way to ensure that you and your partner create a strong foundation for a nurturing, honest and healthy relationship : one that leads to a better chance of a happy, stable and satisfying marriage. In course of therapy, intimate partners address concerns that may arise in their relationship, and are encouraged to talk openly about key areas that people often ignore, or are too shy to bring up.

By discussing these issues in a neutral, confidential and safe environment, couples become aware and work through issues from early stages of their relationship. They can address potential areas of conflict before they flare into serious concerns, improve communication skills, set realistic expectations for marriage, identify emotional resources, and develop conflict-resolution skills. That apart, the idea of Couples Counselling is not to make both partners agree on everything. Instead, it’s about cultivating respect for different opinions, values and aspirations, and better understanding and supporting each other during marriage.

The sessions can be via Skype/ FaceTime or phone. Or if you are both comfortable travelling together, you could have a 3-day 'Couples Counselling Retreat' in the beautiful Nilgiri - Blue Mountains, away from the daily stresses. This is where I live and the surroundings are perfect for such an activity. 

All sessions are confidential.

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WHAT PEOPLE SAY

All I can tell you is that if you go with Bindiya, you'll be in great hands. She is thorough, tough, straightforward and very practical, whilst also being very sensitive and gentle. Her exposure and experiences really

 sets her apart, especially for someone like me--who thinks he knows everything :)

Thank you for never judging me as I poured my darkest secrets and fears. I admire the gentleness and firmness of your nature and how you guided me through many complications, and respect your patience, practicality and discretion in handling my privacy.

ANYA, New Delhi

Low-grade unhappiness, anxiety and dissatisfaction were pretty much a constant for me. I had tried counselling before but didn't think much of it.

Bindiya just changed all that for me in a few weeks. Helping me explore my inner dynamics, and most of all, helping me change and create a much better life for myself.

JJ, London

Bindiya has an unusual knack and understanding of life, professional and personal. Her wisdom and clarity set her apart. You can feel that she really wants you to make progress. Also, I admire her holistic approach to things by layering her counselling sessions with mindfulness,  meditation and other techniques. I can easily say that she is a powerhouse in the area of mental wellness.   

CHRIS, Bangalore

I ask all my friends with a problem to go to Bindiya. She's just amazing in the way she approaches things. The best part for me is that I did not just have to sit there ranting, session-after-session. She made me understand and move on from my past, get a grip on my present, and make a plan for my future. She keeps track of my progress and I have found the most amazing guide  in her. 

POOJA, Mumbai

DEEPAK, Detroit

WHAT PEOPLE SAY

All I can tell you is that if you go with Bindiya, you'll be in great hands. She is thorough, tough, straightforward and very practical, whilst also being very sensitive and gentle. Her exposure and experiences really

 sets her apart, especially for someone like me--who thinks he knows everything :)

Thank you for never judging me as I poured my darkest secrets and fears. I admire the gentleness and firmness of your nature and how you guided me through many complications, and respect your patience, practicality and discretion in handling my privacy.

ANYA, New Delhi

Low-grade unhappiness, anxiety and dissatisfaction were pretty much a constant for me. I had tried counselling before but didn't think much of it.

Bindiya just changed all that for me in a few weeks. Helping me explore my inner dynamics, and most of all, helping me change and create a much better life for myself.

JJ, London

Bindiya has an unusual knack and understanding of life, professional and personal. Her wisdom and clarity set her apart. You can feel that she really wants you to make progress. Also, I admire her holistic approach to things by layering her counselling sessions with mindfulness,  meditation and other techniques. I can easily say that she is a powerhouse in the area of mental wellness.   

CHRIS, Bangalore

I ask all my friends with a problem to go to Bindiya. She's just amazing in the way she approaches things. The best part for me is that I did not just have to sit there ranting, session-after-session. She made me understand and move on from my past, get a grip on my present, and make a plan for my future. She keeps track of my progress and I have found the most amazing guide  in her. 

POOJA, Mumbai

DEEPAK, Detroit

WHAT PEOPLE SAY

All I can tell you is that if you go with Bindiya, you'll be in great hands. She is thorough, tough, straightforward and very practical, whilst also being very sensitive and gentle. Her exposure and experiences really

 sets her apart, especially for someone like me--who thinks he knows everything :)

Thank you for never judging me as I poured my darkest secrets and fears. I admire the gentleness and firmness of your nature and how you guided me through many complications, and respect your patience, practicality and discretion in handling my privacy.

ANYA, New Delhi

Low-grade unhappiness, anxiety and dissatisfaction were pretty much a constant for me. I had tried counselling before but didn't think much of it.

Bindiya just changed all that for me in a few weeks. Helping me explore my inner dynamics, and most of all, helping me change and create a much better life for myself.

JJ, London

Bindiya has an unusual knack and understanding of life, professional and personal. Her wisdom and clarity set her apart. You can feel that she really wants you to make progress. Also, I admire her holistic approach to things by layering her counselling sessions with mindfulness,  meditation and other techniques. I can easily say that she is a powerhouse in the area of mental wellness.   

CHRIS, Bangalore

I ask all my friends with a problem to go to Bindiya. She's just amazing in the way she approaches things. The best part for me is that I did not just have to sit there ranting, session-after-session. She made me understand and move on from my past, get a grip on my present, and make a plan for my future. She keeps track of my progress and I have found the most amazing guide  in her. 

POOJA, Mumbai

DEEPAK, Detroit

WHAT PEOPLE SAY

All I can tell you is that if you go with Bindiya, you'll be in great hands. She is thorough, tough, straightforward and very practical, whilst also being very sensitive and gentle. Her exposure and experiences really

 sets her apart, especially for someone like me--who thinks he knows everything :)

Thank you for never judging me as I poured my darkest secrets and fears. I admire the gentleness and firmness of your nature and how you guided me through many complications, and respect your patience, practicality and discretion in handling my privacy.

ANYA, New Delhi

Low-grade unhappiness, anxiety and dissatisfaction were pretty much a constant for me. I had tried counselling before but didn't think much of it.

Bindiya just changed all that for me in a few weeks. Helping me explore my inner dynamics, and most of all, helping me change and create a much better life for myself.

JJ, London

Bindiya has an unusual knack and understanding of life, professional and personal. Her wisdom and clarity set her apart. You can feel that she really wants you to make progress. Also, I admire her holistic approach to things by layering her counselling sessions with mindfulness,  meditation and other techniques. I can easily say that she is a powerhouse in the area of mental wellness.   

CHRIS, Bangalore

I ask all my friends with a problem to go to Bindiya. She's just amazing in the way she approaches things. The best part for me is that I did not just have to sit there ranting, session-after-session. She made me understand and move on from my past, get a grip on my present, and make a plan for my future. She keeps track of my progress and I have found the most amazing guide  in her. 

POOJA, Mumbai

DEEPAK, Detroit

WHAT PEOPLE SAY

All I can tell you is that if you go with Bindiya, you'll be in great hands. She is thorough, tough, straightforward and very practical, whilst also being very sensitive and gentle. Her exposure and experiences really

 sets her apart, especially for someone like me--who thinks he knows everything :)

Thank you for never judging me as I poured my darkest secrets and fears. I admire the gentleness and firmness of your nature and how you guided me through many complications, and respect your patience, practicality and discretion in handling my privacy.

ANYA, New Delhi

Low-grade unhappiness, anxiety and dissatisfaction were pretty much a constant for me. I had tried counselling before but didn't think much of it.

Bindiya just changed all that for me in a few weeks. Helping me explore my inner dynamics, and most of all, helping me change and create a much better life for myself.

JJ, London

Bindiya has an unusual knack and understanding of life, professional and personal. Her wisdom and clarity set her apart. You can feel that she really wants you to make progress. Also, I admire her holistic approach to things by layering her counselling sessions with mindfulness,  meditation and other techniques. I can easily say that she is a powerhouse in the area of mental wellness.   

CHRIS, Bangalore

I ask all my friends with a problem to go to Bindiya. She's just amazing in the way she approaches things. The best part for me is that I did not just have to sit there ranting, session-after-session. She made me understand and move on from my past, get a grip on my present, and make a plan for my future. She keeps track of my progress and I have found the most amazing guide  in her. 

POOJA, Mumbai

DEEPAK, Detroit

WHAT PEOPLE SAY

The best blessing in disguise and I recommend it to every single couple. Although we landed up there only because we almost broke up a few weeks before the wedding, the understanding we gained about each other and our life as a couple was mindblowing. It was like we had a crash course on really knowing each other, even though we were going around for 4 years.

Everyone tells you where to shop for your wedding, which planner to get, exotic destinations to chose etc. But nobody tells you what to really expect after you get married. We had never even thought about the many things we discussed at the retreat. It opened our eyes in the most beautiful way and really prepared us for a healthy marriage. So blessed to have had this.. 

SHAURYA & MINI

Mumbai

When our friend suggested this we were like, "why"? We were already happy and had no issues. She then said it was her gift to us and we thought it would be a nice excuse to sneak away for a few days. We had no expectations, even thinking we'll bunk some days.  But there we were, glued to the sofa at Bindiya's as she made us explore such wonderful, practical and unexpected dimensions. 

COORAYS

Srilanka

I just want to say that if there is one thing you should invest in before your wedding and that you can use forever after, it is definitely this. Awesome is the only word I can use to describe it. We both left feeling so much stronger as a couple. We are approaching our new life with confidence, love and most of all, loads of new-found respect for each other. We always knew that love will keep us alive. But now we say that these sessions will keep our love alive and healthy. Bohoma Istuti!

Bindiya, thank you for teaching us the most valuable skill as a couple, and that is the right way to communicate. Sounds so simple that we never thought we'd need an expert to teach us that, but it has been the most valuable lesson of all as we embark on our journey together. We have taken so much back from this program and it's becoming a part of how we operate as a couple now.  Much gratitude.

MOHIT & RITIKA

Pune

RAO & MAHUA

Kolkata

AMAAN & SONIA

Ahmedabad

Cell: (+91) 94860 17700

Between 10am - 6pm IST only

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Ketti, The Nilgiris, Tamil Nadu, India